I will be heading back to the UK for a visit in about a months time, the visit coincides with my 30th Birthday, which has got me thinking about everything I’ve learnt about myself and doing a working holiday these past 19 months, closing the door on my 20s.
When people talk about travelling they talk about the way it changes you and yes it does change you, but for me at least it’s given me the freedom to explore and become the person I want to be. As you’re constantly meeting new people and they don’t know who you were before so you can be whatever version of yourself around them you want to be.
I think for most us doing the WHVs for most of the time, we’re static in one place living and working in a new city or town. I’ve lived and worked in 2 different cities Sydney and Wellington. I’ve been different in both.
In Sydney I was pretending it seems to me now, I was acting and behaving in ways that I thought I should be whilst living ‘the dream’ in Sydney. My reality was very different to the ‘dream’ life I thought I’d have. Looking back now I feel like Sydney was just a big old learning curve for me, I felt overwhelmed in it. Don’t get me wrong it’s a great city and I had some great times there, it just wasn’t the right fit for me.
Wellington on the other hand, feels like home. I feel like here I’ve become a person I like and a person I’d like to stay. I’ve become a gym bunny, a party girl, hostel long termer, HR Coordinator and friend to a lot of awesome people. I am content here, and yeah life isn’t perfect a lot of things could be better but I have good friends, I like my gym, I don’t hate my job life could and has been a hell of a lot worse.
This is what I’ve learnt these past 19 months:
- I needed to grow up a lot.
- Life is what you make of it.
- Nothing can live up to big expectations.
- Reality is when it’s payday and you’re moneys already gone.
- The cheaper hostels have the best people in.
- Be that annoying person who talks to everyone that walks in their dorm room.
- A bit of distance makes things clearer.
- I can sit at home watching Netflix feeling sorry for myself or go out there and do something about life.
- People can make a place, but a place can make people.
- Being content is a great thing to be.
- Being a heavy sleeper is a god send in Hostels.
- Hostels are the best way to meet people while travelling. Embrace it.
- Each new place you move to you’ll figure things out a bit more and get a step closer to what you want.
- Wellington is the coolest little capital in the world I love it with all my heart.